Am I too fat? Am I too short? Do I look good? Does the
foundation hide my blemishes? Does this make me look thin?
How far do those self love – being confident quotes actually
help people like us? People like me? Me who always finds some or the other
fault in herself. Someone who does not accept her self the way she is.. Someone
who likes attention but fails to gain it. Someone who fails to find that one
person because she feels that its all about her looks. How true are people when
they say, ‘looks don’t matter’. OFCOURSE they do.. Well maybe because I have encountered
people for who its just about that and nothing else. Maybe I never came across
people who actually mean it when they say that looks don’t matter much. They matter,but
just varies in people,I guess.
I was never worried much about the way I looked until and
unless I was rejected for it once. Its such experiences or instances in life
that change the way you are,change how you think. And trust me its bugging. That
one instance and it became the reason for each and every problem for me in my
life.
This is not something about me or my misery or my problems. But
how much are the girls out there actually comfortable ‘being themselves’. I
have been told a million times,that’ it’s the personality that matters,just be
confident. I ask how is someone supposed to be confident with a fat body,short
height? How do we accept ourselves? And for girls like us we might have been
told to eat healthy,or go to the gym,start working out but till when does that
last? And I ask,why change ourselves for someone else? Just because we want to
be acceptable to some person in our life,we stop EATING French fries? HELL NO. And
even if it has to be for someone then do it for yourself.
As far for me,im still working on ‘being me’ and not someone
who people want me to be.
‘Looks’ should just
be seen as a bonus,like a cherry on the cake,you know like if its there then
HURRAYY,but if not it does not actually stop you from eating the delicious
chocolate cake right? ;)
